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Today’s Hint: The Magic “Bag” of Treasures for Curtailing Tantrums

August 27, 2014 By Hint Mama

I’m a bit of a pack rat. So, for the last year or so, anytime my 2-year-old daughter has received little items she’s not quite ready to play with unsupervised (think little Play-Doh containers, stickers and toy cars from birthday party goodie bags), I haven’t thrown them away.

Instead, I’ve been stashing the goodies away in a pitcher in our kitchen, along with other trinkets from around our house I’m saving for my daughter rather than getting rid of (for example, plastic jewelry from my bachelorette party and an old harmonica). Initially, I was storing the items in the pitcher out of sight until my toddler was older.

However, recently, I hit on a strategy for utilizing the goodies that is today’s hint: Whenever my daughter is on the verge of throwing a tantrum because she wants something she can’t have (think her pacifier when naptime is over), I whip out the pitcher, saying it’s time for “mommy’s magic pitcher.”

IMG_4410Then, I either dump the contents out and let my daughter play with them as she wishes, or I bring the items out a few at a time. Generally, the otherwise forbidden toys (treasures, in my daughter’s eyes) are met with lots of “oohs” and “aahs” from my little one, or at least a bit of excitement. She’ll typically play with them for a good 10 minutes or so, and another tantrum is averted.

To be sure, this trick isn’t anything revolutionary. It’s a variation of the general notion of dealing with a young child’s anger using some sort of redirection or distraction, as in “I’m sorry that you can’t have your pacifier. I know that makes you mad, but you can have these other items,” (a technique not all parenting experts agree with because it may reward bad behavior, but one I have found works, at least for now).

It’s also a twist on the notion of toy rotation, and an at-home version of the common advice to have a bag of tricks (i.e. lots of new toys from the dollar store) to entertain young kids during travel. It’s also a great easy toddler activity idea even if your little one isn’t about to throw a fit.

Like the sound of this strategy? You don’t necessarily need a pitcher to do it. Any old bag or container will work just as well. The only requirement is that it’s a container where you can store little special trinkets and toys you’ll only bring out once in a while. Just be sure to supervise your child while he or she is playing with the special items if they’re not quite age appropriate yet.

What do you do with all the little trinkets your child receives? What are your tricks for curtailing tantrums? Share your thoughts below.

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Filed Under: Activities & Classes, Play, Toys Tagged With: distraction, dollar store toys, dollar stores, easy toddler activities, Hint Mama, no-prep required toddler activity, temper tantrums, toy rotation, Trips With Tykes

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  1. Amanda @ The Kolb Corner says

    September 4, 2014 at 3:15 pm

    Another great share at the Merry Monday Link party. Thanks for linking up with us!

  2. Colleen Sullivan says

    September 16, 2014 at 11:47 pm

    Great idea! Thanks so much for linking up with us!

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  1. Today’s Hint: A Frugal Pretend Play Purse – Hint Mama says:
    October 1, 2014 at 2:02 pm

    […] badge pouch from the show, trying it on a number of times. So, I put it away for her in my “magic pitcher of tricks,” a pitcher filled with her trinkets and treasures that I don’t feel comfortable having her […]

  2. Today’s Hint: How to Keep Older Siblings Occupied During Baby Feeding Time – Hint Mama says:
    January 11, 2017 at 2:51 pm

    […] bring out just when you’re feeding, or otherwise tending to, your new addition (a variation of my magic pitcher idea and the Rookie Moms’ toddler busy bag suggestion). The exact activities and toys will vary […]

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