Hint Mama

The Big Blog of Hints: Sharing hints to make parenting easier, cheaper and a bit more humorous

  • Home
  • About
  • Advertise
  • Contact
    • Share a Hint
  • Gear
  • Preparing For Baby
  • Toys
  • Childproofing
  • Traveling
  • Mealtime
  • Activities & Classes
  • Parties & Entertaining

Today’s Hint: A Tip for Doing it All When Your Significant Other is Out of Town

August 14, 2014 By Hint Mama

As a working parent, I’m lucky to have help during the day with my toddler, but my husband and I generally split the morning and evening duties.

So, when my husband recently was out of town for nine days and ten nights (yes, I was counting), I found it exhausting to handle all of the morning parenting rituals, then work a full day, then handle dinner, cleaning up and bath time.

That is, it was tiring until I hit on a trick for making part-time single parenting a bit more manageable, a tip that is today’s hint: I slept when my toddler slept.

When you’re a new parent, you’re sure to hear the advice “sleep when your baby sleeps.” Since you’re up so much during the night with a sleeping baby, general wisdom is to sleep when your baby does during the day and the night. As a new mom, I found this tactic easier said than done, considering all of the pumping, thank you cards and laundry that needs to get done during the first few months postpartum.

However, I had no problem following this wisdom when I recently was the sole caregiver. While I had visions of staying up after my then 22-month-old daughter fell asleep for the night, watching all of my favorite chick-friendly television shows and movies, I instead listened to my body and went to bed.

Going to bed by 8:30 p.m. enabled me to have the energy to wake up and tackle the next day. Meanwhile, during the weekend I was solo, instead of getting things done during my daughter’s naptime (I figured the dirty dishes could wait), I again listened to my body and napped while my toddler napped.

To be sure, this trick may be harder to do if you have children beyond toddler age who no longer nap or don’t go to bed early.

And if you’re a single parent, you can’t always sleep when your little one is sleeping, though you’ve probably figured out other ways of managing it all, and I have great respect for you. But when you’re not a single parent and not used to handling it all, sleeping when your children sleep can help make the new amount of work a bit more manageable. Plus, it’s cheaper than hiring lots of extra help.

It’s also worth noting that this “sleep when your toddler sleeps” trick is also very helpful even if your significant other is in town, especially if you have a toddler and you just had a second child or you’re pregnant and exhausted, as noted over at the Bellyitch Blog, Imperfectly Natural Mama and the site Baby Bunching.

What are your tricks for managing it all when you’re temporarily the sole caregiver?

Follow Hint Mama on Facebook and Twitter, and read more about her and her disclosures.

Share Button

More Hints

  • Today’s Hint: How to Talk to Little Kids About Alexa (and Robots)Today’s Hint: How to Talk to Little Kids About Alexa (and Robots)
  • Today’s Hint: Hint Mama’s Top Halloween Hints (Plus a New Halloween Hint)Today’s Hint: Hint Mama’s Top Halloween Hints (Plus a New Halloween Hint)
  • Today’s Hint: What to Do With Old Coloring BooksToday’s Hint: What to Do With Old Coloring Books
  • Today’s Hint: 5 Outside-the-Box Bath ToysToday’s Hint: 5 Outside-the-Box Bath Toys
  • Today’s Hint: 3 Birthday Party Planning TipsToday’s Hint: 3 Birthday Party Planning Tips

Filed Under: Help, Preparing for Baby, Taking Time for Yourself Tagged With: Baby Bunching, Hint Mama, husband out of town, Imperfectly Natural Mama, significant other out of town, single parenting, single parents, sleep when your baby sleeps, sleep when your toddler sleeps, solo parent, solo parenting, The Bellyitch Blog, wife out of town

Drop Me a Hint

Contact Hint Mama

Comments

  1. imperfectly natural mama says

    August 17, 2014 at 8:01 pm

    Thanks so much for linking to my blog, there are some great ideas here to survive those tricky times. Having extra energy helps so much x

  2. Liz says

    September 18, 2014 at 7:24 pm

    I needed this reminder, perfect timing for me. I also work full-time and split the am and pm routine duties but will be going solo while he’s out of town soon and feel so out of practice. Sleep is a must to balance the juggling act of parenting!

aaa

SEARCH HINTS

[instagram-feed]

Advertise Here

You can find more information about advertising on HintMama.com, month- and quarter-long sponsorships, guest posts, press relations and disclosures here.

Find a Hint

  • Activities & Classes (96)
    • Potty Training (10)
    • Preschool (18)
    • Story Time (4)
    • Storytime (3)
  • Baby Registry (24)
  • Bathtime (10)
  • Birthday Parties/Entertaining (43)
    • Baby Showers (11)
  • Childproofing (28)
  • Decorating (32)
  • Diapers & Related Products (21)
  • Exercise (13)
  • Gear (172)
    • Bibs (5)
    • Bottles (11)
    • Car Seats (18)
    • Clothes (24)
    • Hair Accessories (2)
    • Strollers (12)
  • Help (18)
  • Helpful Tech (61)
  • Holidays (60)
  • Loveys (4)
  • Mealtime (81)
  • Play (56)
  • Pregnancy (16)
  • Preparing for Baby (97)
  • Recording Memories (16)
  • Safety (36)
  • Saving for College (2)
  • Savings (63)
  • Shoes (4)
  • Sleep (26)
  • Staying Organized (37)
  • Taking Time for Yourself (44)
  • Top Hints (19)
  • Toys (88)
  • Traveling (71)
  • Uncategorized (5)

Shop: Hint Mama’s Picks

At Hint Mama's Amazon.com store, you'll find the select products Hint Mama recommends as well as those mentioned in Hint Mama's posts. Read Hint Mama's disclosures here.

Old Hints

  • December 2019 (1)
  • December 2018 (1)
  • October 2018 (1)
  • September 2018 (1)
  • August 2018 (1)
  • July 2018 (2)
  • January 2018 (1)
  • September 2017 (3)
  • August 2017 (1)
  • July 2017 (1)
  • June 2017 (2)
  • April 2017 (1)
  • March 2017 (1)
  • February 2017 (1)
  • January 2017 (10)
  • September 2016 (1)
  • August 2016 (2)
  • July 2016 (1)
  • May 2016 (1)
  • April 2016 (1)
  • March 2016 (2)
  • February 2016 (1)
  • January 2016 (1)
  • December 2015 (3)
  • November 2015 (3)
  • October 2015 (5)
  • September 2015 (7)
  • August 2015 (7)
  • July 2015 (9)
  • June 2015 (6)
  • May 2015 (9)
  • April 2015 (11)
  • March 2015 (11)
  • February 2015 (11)
  • January 2015 (18)
  • December 2014 (17)
  • November 2014 (14)
  • October 2014 (23)
  • September 2014 (21)
  • August 2014 (20)
  • July 2014 (22)
  • June 2014 (21)
  • May 2014 (21)
  • April 2014 (21)
  • March 2014 (21)
  • February 2014 (19)
  • January 2014 (22)
  • December 2013 (21)
  • November 2013 (21)
  • October 2013 (23)
  • September 2013 (21)
  • August 2013 (8)

Before entering the corporate world, Jennifer Saranow Schultz (aka Hint Mama) was the lead writer for The New York Times “Bucks” personal finance blog and a reporter at The Wall Street Journal. Read More…

300x250 Mom Break POPSUGAR Select Moms USFamilyGuide.com

RIGHTS RESERVED

Hint Mama™ is a trademark of the author of this blog. Unless otherwise indicated, all text, images and (sometimes humorous) hint sharing were created and produced by the author of this blog. Rights reserved. So please enjoy (but do not reproduce without permission).

From the Blog

Today’s Hint: A Solution for Missing Puzzle Pieces

Today’s Hint: How to Talk to Little Kids About Alexa (and Robots)

Today’s Hint: Hint Mama’s Top Halloween Hints (Plus a New Halloween Hint)

Today’s Hint: What to Do With Old Coloring Books

Today’s Hint: 5 Outside-the-Box Bath Toys

Advertise, Sponsor, Press Relations, Disclosures

You can find more information about advertising on HintMama.com, month- and quarter-long sponsorships, guest posts, press relations and disclosures here. Google+

Find it Here

Copyright © 2014 · Hint Mama · Design by Anchored Design on the Genesis Framework